Energy Healing and the Question about Emotional Balance

It is pretty interesting how a certain topic enters your life….

At the moment I constantly have encounters with people who ask me A) “I’m an energy healer, but I have a lot of stress in my life at the moment. Can I still heal others?” or B)”Somebody did Reiki on me but this person is so out of balance that I couldn’t feel anything during the session. Would I have been able to feel something when he would have been more balanced?” or C) “I have a friend who is an energy healer but has to deal with so many problems that she sometimes tells me about those issues. Then I’m feeling worse than before the treatment. Is that ok?” or D) “I’ve been diagnosed by an energy healer to have all my chakras screwed up and that it takes several sessions to unblock me. Am I really that sick?”

Question A: YOU are NOT healing others!!! Whether you are in balance or not! You are channeling Universal energies to enhance your client’s Self-Healing-Power! If you have a lot of stress in your life, deal with it first before you have your next client! It’s only fair to the client if you cancel the appointment and admit that you’re out of balance!

Question B: Depending on the training/education (weekend Reiki workshops for more than one level or attunements over the phone or online are NO-NO’s) and personal growth of the healer I would say “Yes, if this person would have been balanced you would have felt something!”

Question C: OH MY GOD!!! That’s breaking the Energy Healing Code of ETHICS! There are TWO ABSOLUTE/DEFINITE NO-NO’s: 1. Never load your issues on a client! Deal with it and then have clients again! 2. Never make a diagnosis!!! see Question D

Question D: OH MY GOD!!! I would like to know how screwed up are the chakras of this energy healer… Remember, our clients are OK the way they are. Our clients have all the skills and resources to create a successful life! Sometimes they come to us for guidance but not to be told that they are out of whack. That’s what the doctors tell them often enough! Energy Healers have to know better!!! We are here to encourage because we know that EVERYTHING IS POSSIBLE. If our clients leave our practice with a POSITIVE MIND they’re already on their PERSONAL HEALING PATH!

I started my spiritual path with Energy Healing in 1997 and with every step of getting more balanced BY FINISHING MY UNFINISHED BUSINESS FROM THE PAST I could feel more energy and get more metaphorical inner pictures or personal affirmations for my client while working with her or him. One day I left the hand positions I learned with Reiki because the energy kept moving me in certain ways and since that happened I get all this wonderful feedback from my clients about intensively feeling the energy and seeing colours. I am convinced that only when I’m psycho-emotionally balanced I can drop into the SACRED PLACE OF THE HEART and that’s when HEALING happens. That’s when my and my client’s energies can meet on a HEART or unconditional LOVE – Level. That’s when we are at the ZERO or STILL POINT. And that’s not possible if somebody is not in balance but still in his or her BRAIN!

Go out of your BRAIN and into your HEART and then let HAPPEN! The UNIVERSE will do the rest!





CINDY – A metaphor for RE-CONNECTING with your INNER CHILD

Sometimes life gives you a broad hint about what you have to do next or what you have to focus on in your next Post or Workshop.

At the moment I’m meeting a lot of very unhappy people… People who don’t like themselves, who feel lonely and unloved all the time; people who try to distract themselves all the time and are addicted to video games, Facebook or TV; people who try to take care and give advice to others but are completely split off themselves and neither show responsibility for their own life nor even want to think about their own situation.

Wouldn’t it be worth to work on yourself and make a little personal change in your life even if it’s painful, as you have to deal with the past, to be rewarded with happiness, success, love, peacefulness, centeredness, contentment, abundance of possibilities….etc.?”

So this metaphor is especially for those of you who love their animal more than themselves and how this beautiful part of creation can help you heal your Inner Child.

Her name is “Cindy”. My husband gave her another name and called her “f… broken fuel pump” because we met her when our car broke down in Portage La Prairie.

She is a three-coloured cat, absolutely beautiful and unique – like ME and YOU.

Suddenly she was sitting on the line in the middle of the highway. I heard cars coming, jumped out of our truck and ran to her as fast as I could. Usually cats then run away when you approach them that fast and this was my first idea to get her away from the dangerous road. But she stayed and looked at me. I grabbed her, run back to the truck and held her on my lap and took a closer look at her.

She was dirty, her fur was lustreless and full of fleas, her ears black inside because of all the mites – just like a neglected Inner Child.

She didn’t purr. It seemed that she surrendered her life to me because she didn’t want to suffer anymore – just like an Inner Child longing to be healed so badly.

We waited for the towing truck, took her home and took her to the Vet next day. There she was not calm anymore; she behaved like a tiger in the jungle and didn’t want to be touched by others because of the fear of being hurt again – just like the injured Inner Child.

That’s a while ago now and Cindy has become a personality; she knows what she wants, she’s proud, she’s independent, she takes responsibility for herself, she reaches out for love and help when she needs it, she expresses her moods and she doesn’t care at all what other humans or cats may think about her, she’s authentic, she’s trusting, she enjoys life with all the dangers and adventures, she makes experiences and learns from them, she likes company and then she loves to be alone again – just like a healed and loved Inner Child – just like ME! What about YOU?

She has just climbed on my chest while I’m writing this post. She’s purring, very loud! We’re exchanging our love through our hearts, I touch her fur and she looks at me. Love is pouring out of her eyes…

Memories come up… about my childhood…. I remember how I always wanted to have a cat when I was a little girl. I remember that I could pet cats forever and forget the time about it. I remember how I was hiding a cat in my bedroom and spoiling her with cream and how my mom found out, throwing the cat out of the door and slapping my face. I remember how I couldn’t understand and cried for hours, longing for this unconditional love of a cat, longing for touching this soft fur and listen to the calming sound of purring…

I can see myself lying on the bed and crying and I can feel this pain again and I’m getting sad… My eyes fill with tears and I take my little Inner Child in my arms and say: “Don’t be sad anymore. I love you and I take care of you. Can you see Cindy? She’s our cat! Nobody can take her away from us. Let’s spoil her with our love and let us be spoiled by her love! Isn’t life wonderful?”

And my Inner Child is smiling, snuggling to my chest and buries her little finger in Cindy’s fur. Cindy is even purring louder… Now she’s getting the four-handed petting love…


Unconditional Love